Im using old lead solder. Not on my domestic but the boiler. Could old lead solder be the problem?
Lots of folks have asked about the "secret" to soldering. No secret really.
1.
Clean pipe and
clean fittings.
2. Use petroleum based flux (especially for this, not a potable use system) on the pipe and in the fitting. A light coating on both will do just fine.
Old lead solder has a much lower melting temp and should be easier to "flow" into the joint(s).
If heating 1" copper, or larger, apply the blue part of the flame to the "seating" part of the joint and keep the solder and torch on the same side; heat until you start to see the "green" tint to the flame, then apply solder and work the torch and solder around the joint. If using 3/4" copper/brass fittings, or smaller, I usually heat on the opposite side of where I am applying the solder.
With lead solder, the "flow" temp should be well before the "green" tint required by "lead free" solder.
Hope this is at least a tiny bit helpful.
If you are using a propane style of hand held torch, the lead solder will be much to your advantage.