Madsens for the dressing rods,
I run an old 12v 450 Simmington
Madsens can get you a fair amount of spare parts for them, the 450s are getting ancient but still use a lot of the same parts as the 451's though some stuff will look different, they do the same job and bolt up.
I don't bother with the dressing brick, the stones aren't that hard and it only takes a few minutes to knock the heavy stuff off with the single point dresser, I've yet to replace a dressing tool in 5? years, just don't expect to take it all off in one whack. Dressing a grinding wheel takes takes a little time and finesse, run the dresser across the stone slowly and repeatedly with a little positive pressure on the pivot until it doesn't make any dust or noise, otherwise you'll have weird humps lumps and curves... the idea is to have a perfect plane... Also, the leading edge of the stone works better if its a little tall... cutting into the side plates isn't the end of the world, leaving the side of the cutter unsharpened is... its really easy to make it a little too pointy... also means that you need to file the "gullets" every time, which is stupid if you can find a way not to. (whats the point of a grinder if you still have to mess with file?)
big thing is getting the machine set up right, there is inherent differences from one side to the other, shimming the motor will be required to get it to run true on both sides.
Put a little German torque on the wheel when you first install, normally you finger tighten grinding wheels, most grinders don't have reverse though... so a little extra, not enough to crush or crack the stone but enough so it don't unwind itself in revers.
The only real problems i've seen with any of them, a buddy picked up a "new" 451b but it was missing the retaining clip things on the adjusting screws so they would vibrate and screw up every 3-4th tooth... he'd also dropped it and broke the tooth stop so its more or less his fault, but something to look into.
As for the adjustable arm, meh, It would be nice I guess but I've gotten pretty good results with the fixed arm mine came with, and its a lot more stable... the adjustable ones just have more **** that can go wrong and you end up more or less at the same adjustments as the fixed one anyway.
Madsens again on the wheels, though any saw shop worth its signage will have wheels out here, the radiac brand used to be pacific grinding... same building, (they are local to me) make a pretty skookum product, though for a year or two there they dropped the ball, the new stuff has been spot on.... anyway, I prefer the white wheel, or in a pinch the "salmon" the pink wheels are ****, the grey wheels or for folks that like to polish after wiping... and the wax embedded can be left in the garbage can where they belong... with proper dressing even the coarsest wheel will leave a near mirror finish.