Honeysuckle (shrub types) are fine bloomers, but tend to insect damage later in the season and are VERY AGGRESSIVE seeders. Some states no longer allow them to be sold or distributed for this reason. This same applies to barberries (berberis) and burning bush (euonymous). Check with your state extension service before considering these plants.
Privet tends to 'legginess' in the far North and requires selective pruning on an annual basis.
Chokecherry and mock orange could work (although deiciduous), both will max out at 15'-20' in the North. Chokecherry is more likely to look treelike, where mock orange tends to shrubbiness (multiple stems). If this is the look you prefer, I'd go with lots of lilacs with different colors and bloomtimes - magnificent. Don't believe that "Miss Kim" is a genetic dwarf. I have one that's 10'-12' and (I hope) will stop putting on height one of these years.
Japanese tree lilac (Syringa reticulata) maxes out at about 35' in the North and would require pruning every couple of years to keep out of the wires. I have one directly under wires and this has been my experience.
Arbs and hemlocks will get too large without pruning, and I don't know about Osage orange (doesn't grow here - Zone 3). Although you might be able to find some dwarf forms of one or the other.
Forgot to mention a STUNNING red form of chokecherry called "Canada Red". Also. there are some remarkable dwarf forms of green and blue spruces, but they are slow growing and will not give you the cover you want for many years. Good luck.