Pick whichever one feels right in your hands. I've owned all of the saws in question except the 7910. I had a 7900. Even the 385/390 as mentioned in a post. They're all only as good as the guy pulling the trigger and sharpening the chain.
IMHO, They're all very nice saws.
The 461 is the least polished/feels old school. Good running saw that pulls hard and feel like you're gettin it done.
The 372XT is noticeably heavier than the 372OE. To me it is not much lighter feeling than a 576. IDC what the scale says, I'm talking balance and feel. Nice smooth running saw though. I like a 20" bar on this size saw though so I prefer the OE's powerband, For a 28, Id go XT.
The 576 is a very nice running saw. Box stock I didn't care for it's drivability but with just a muffler mod I really liked it. Much better throttle response and spool up and actually sounded like a saw. Running it is Kinda like a stihl 460 with no vibrations. The smoothness makes it seem slower than it is. It;s deceptive.
The 7910 I have not been around yet but have had a 7900. A VERY sneaky saw. Quiet and smooth. Feels kinda mundane/electric like but it is a very fast saw. I personally didnt care for their HD filter setup. The components just seemed cheesy. The handle spacing is much more open than the stihl or husky which even though it's light weight, makes it seem like a bigger saw to me. Dolmar in general seems like what you would get if a Stihl and a Husky had a baby. They're a good mix of both companies design strategies.
As for the 385/390's, Im still trying to decide if I like them or not lol. I think its the smoothness thing that makes them seem ho-hum to me. My ported 064 feels way faster than my ported 390 in the same log but I bet theres less than a second difference in a 30 second cut. But my smile lasts longer with the ported 064, so that has to count for something.