Those points are non issues for me. I don't care if it takes overnight to recharge, and 250 miles range would be plenty for me. My electricity recently went up 50%, but even so the $$/mile cost is way less than ICE.
The main things stopping me are that I'm not paying 4x what a comparable ICE car goes for just to have electric, and I'm not driving an iPad. If someone comes out with an EV that costs the same or slightly more than a comparable ICE car, has no touch screen, has tactile controls for basic vehicle functions, and no internet connectivity, I'll buy one right now. AWD wagon, very preferably.