MS290 is a bit of an older design saw, so its likely fine (lesss picky and hot rodded back then).
Always best to follow the mfg recommends.
The 290 can take some absue, so you abused it a bit maybe, but not anywhere near the end of the world.
You really wood (pun) need to be moving up use wise a lot to need a 361. Great saw, but serious one for heavy cutting many days a week.
I am running a MS270, 10 cords a year. Not 5 days a week cutting, but when I do cut, its 3-5 hours of pretty steady cutting. Its doing great. I figure 30 cords so far and its running better all the time. One guy reports about 70 and going strong.
So unless you really have the heavy use, stick with the 290 and enjoy i for another 10 years.