Over fertilized? Sure, that is possible, but for the tree to get too much, you'd have to be pumping it into the grass pretty hard...and too much wouldn't typically cause curl. IF there is a fungal disease causing the curl, you might make the argument that imbalanced nutrient profile predisposed the tree to fungal infection, but much more information is needed before making that jump.
Do you have pictures?
IF it is caused by lawn applications, it is more likely the herbicide in the lawn treatments than the fertilizer. 2, 4-D certainly curls leaves. Triclopyr volatilizes over 80-some degrees, so that could put a hurtin on lower leaves of a tree. In the last week, I have seen herbicide damage on pear, red maple, pin oak, crabapple, and redbud on 4 different properties. 2 of those were from agricultural drift. The others were lawn treatments causing the problems. Fortunately, there was nothing fatal in any of these circumstances...just some leaf curl. Working on the numbers for another where a windbreak was wiped out by drift.
I'd call him on it and ask what he is seeing that leads to a conclusion of too much fertilizer.
Sure, it may need dead wood removed, but is that related to the leaf curl?
PS: do you soil test for fertilization rates?