"I would love to plant one, but my understanding is they are very hard to find, usually small, and they take forever to grow."
Hey if you want one you have to go and find it...if you look for one you can find one. These trees are not going to sprout legs and come looking for you, although I am working on that. I strongly recommend that you insist on a male grafted tree. Ask for a named cultivar such as 'Magyar', 'Autumn Gold, 'Golden Globe' etc. These can be very large trees so if you want something smaller ask for 'Jade Butterflies, 'Chase Manhattan', 'ChiChi' etc. First find out what will fit in your planting plan. Research. A plus in getting a small tree is that you can readily see a graft union, on older, larger Ginkgo trees, the union is very difficult if near impossible to observe. A few are rooted, most are grafted and there are a lot of sexually produced (seedlings) trees on the market. A nursery near me has had Ginkgoes for sale for years and every time I visit (not too often) I ask about these 6'-8' trees. They always tell me that they are rooted male trees. Uh huh. This is the same nursery that years ago sold my wife a Quince that bears green apples. Look for reputable sources. Nurserymen with integrity. It may take 15 to 30 years for a seed grown Ginkgo to show it's sex and the fruit from a female tree is objectionable to most people. Call local nurseries and garden centers to find availability or go on-line too seek out a male grafted Ginkgo cultivar. If you have a large estate an unsexed tree would be fine planted somewhere away from buildings, drives, walks and places where people gather. Growth rate for Ginkgo is slow to moderate. I think that they are slow the first few years then grow more rapidly until they get of size then slow down for the next 1,000 to 1,500 years. heh heh...under the right conditions, you can expect 1'-3' growth per year on a young but established tree.