so i talked to the guy today
he seems to be much more reasonable today after sounding like a #### on his message yesterday
he asked if i would take the infected wood, i said sure of course i will, he told me he already went through the 3 cords and pulled out the infected ash/hickory and set it aside, i will go get the pile of infested wood, and bring him some birch and cherry to make up for it. i dont want to lose a customer over a little pile of wood, he has got lots of wood from me and wants more to come. he said he loves the wood i am giving him (all ash,cherry,locust,birch,hickory). so i guess i will suck it up and go take the infested wood and do something with it.
im thinking of just burning the wood somewhere, depending on how much it is, certainly dont want to bring it home with me. he understands this, ####in bugs