Nomak, sorry about the house, thank God you and you boy are safe.
Dinger is right about the quadrafire being a fantastic stove, so is pacific energy stoves, quite a few of our wood customers use either brand and have nothing but rave reviews on how great they are.
I sell one guy wood with a Hardy OWB, thank goodness it sets away from his building, he only will buy green wood, I'm talking freshly cut red oak and hedge. He has flue fires all the time. He uses 8" well casing for a flue. I was driving by one night with my boys and he had a flue fire going and we stopped to tell him, it wasn't no big deal to him. The sound is unbelievable as it looked like a oil well/afterburner cooking off.
Again, glad your safe. A house can be rebuilt, precious life can't be.