Wow, all you guys sound like me. I know a lot of you have been doing the self-sufficiency thing for a long time, but for me, it's only been a couple of years. I grew up with a woodstove and a vegetable garden, and then for a few years in my early 30's, had oil heat and no garden and a good income so I didn't care. Now it's gotten a lot tougher and we are slowly draggin' ourselves into some semblance of quasi-homesteaders. I just wish that I hadn't buried my house so far into the woods, I could really use a couple acres of open fields with some sunshine.
I will be the first to admit I am a lazy SOB. I like cutting wood, I tolerate splitting (with a hydraulic splitter), I hate stacking, and the daily feedings of the OWB get to be a pain in the *** when it's zero degrees outside, or raining buckets. But the alternative is paying something like $3000 to the propane company annually for heat, hot water and cooking fuel, and that's not gonna happen.
This is also our first year trying some form of livestock. I've got chickens on order, three piglets coming in the end of April, and I've scratched out enough space for a decent garden this year with more to follow later. I don't hunt, I used to as a teenager, but the first deer that gets a taste of the vegetable garden is gonna find itself vacuum-sealed in bags in the freezer.
Next five to eight years is going to determine how we live the rest of our lives, I think. I've found that as I get older, it's less about having all the toys to play with, and more about basic care and feeding of your family. Not gonna go so far as to say 'survival', but sometimes that's just what it feels like. I wouldn't mind being 90% self sufficient in ten years - food, fuel and energy (solar and wind power are in future plans).