Fred Wright
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We don't have neighbors either... not close by anyhow. That suits us both just fine.
The SheWolf's son recently finished the metal roof on our home. We bought the materials, he came down from Western PA to install it. We're getting too old to help much but we did what we could for him while he was here. A nice guest room to stay in, home cooked meals etc. And paid him for his time. I offered to pay union rate but he wouldn't take it. He's a roofer by trade and did a top notch job.
Reason I'm posting this, I wasn't about to ask for free (or discount) labor, especially after what I went through when I was married. Nobody should be expected to work for free. No matter who we're working for or when, time is inventory and we all gotta eat.
Back in the married years I ran a mobile DJ business. Her sister's son-in-law expected me to DJ at their home on their boy's birthday every year. At no charge, of course. One year they almost caused me to be late to a night campground show, a bunch of people had blocked my truck in the drive.
Anyhow, one year my truck needed a clutch. The SIL, who worked in a tranny shop offered to do the job for me at their home. I figured what the heck, maybe I'll get something in exchange for years of DJing free for those asshats.
He did the clutch job... and told me I owed him $175.00 for the work. To say I was ticked off would be putting it mildly. I paid him, just to keep the peace.
The following summer they called, wanting me to DJ the kid's party again. I said sure... discount rate of $175.00 and a signed contract.
Yup... crickets chirping. They never called me again.
The SheWolf's son recently finished the metal roof on our home. We bought the materials, he came down from Western PA to install it. We're getting too old to help much but we did what we could for him while he was here. A nice guest room to stay in, home cooked meals etc. And paid him for his time. I offered to pay union rate but he wouldn't take it. He's a roofer by trade and did a top notch job.
Reason I'm posting this, I wasn't about to ask for free (or discount) labor, especially after what I went through when I was married. Nobody should be expected to work for free. No matter who we're working for or when, time is inventory and we all gotta eat.
Back in the married years I ran a mobile DJ business. Her sister's son-in-law expected me to DJ at their home on their boy's birthday every year. At no charge, of course. One year they almost caused me to be late to a night campground show, a bunch of people had blocked my truck in the drive.
Anyhow, one year my truck needed a clutch. The SIL, who worked in a tranny shop offered to do the job for me at their home. I figured what the heck, maybe I'll get something in exchange for years of DJing free for those asshats.
He did the clutch job... and told me I owed him $175.00 for the work. To say I was ticked off would be putting it mildly. I paid him, just to keep the peace.
The following summer they called, wanting me to DJ the kid's party again. I said sure... discount rate of $175.00 and a signed contract.
Yup... crickets chirping. They never called me again.