My friends and neighbors know me as a the chainsaw guy because of some of my carvings and my (mild by this site's standards) saw collection. I do have one "loaner" saw that gets lent to a very select set of individuals. They are either two-way street types are very close family.
One former borrower asked in a text if he could borrow my saw again after not seeing me for months. No "hi" or pleasantries first just "u got a saw I can borrow?". We're friends going back to childhood but I still thought it was a little rude. I finally texted back that I do and he can borrow it but it wouldn't be ready until the next evening. He asked if I could just leave it on my front porch so HIS DAD could get for him in the morning. I texted him i couldnt get to it tonight. Its a saw i never use( a Mighty Craftsmen!) so it usually needs sharpened, gassed up, ran through from the last loaners abuse. I was working a 14 hour day(he knew this) and I wouldn't be able to have it ready for him til the next eve. He has the nerve to text back, "Don't u know how to READ? I said tomorrow morning I need it!" If fists could be sent through text message he'd have been in trouble. Needless to say, he's off the list. Funny but I still helped him move a month later. But it moved him out of my life (and I drank all his expensive beer when we finished too).
Life is too short for moochers. Amen.