iron deficiency will display as chlorosis, a yellowing of the leaves and veins. There won't be scortched margins, that brings it into a whole new light.
Diagnostics are difficult over the web but considering your location, symptoms, other proximity hosts and our current epidemic here.....I'd chance to suspect a more serious problem.
Today is Wednesday, by Saturday you most likely will notice the entire canopy in decline - no amount of supplements (to correct deficiencies) will have a chance to metabolise, the system's not working adaquately to process a rescue attempt. I'm sorry but if the above comes true (Saturday's death display) you'll will benefit from removal.
I've often termed the red oak (spanish or texana) the canary in the coal mine in relation to oak wilt - they NEVER recover like 30% of the live oak hosts to wilt. It's a terminal infection bar none. The vascular structures of reds are a thin distinct layer under the bark, not dispersed xylem cells which can make vascular plugging a longer process. They also vector the disease by allowing (due to this shallow cambium layer) the disease to form a fungal matt, the pressure pad the explodes the bark to allow sexual spores of the disease to mobilize onward.
Early recommendations for oak wilt management here on the Plateau were to eliminate all red oak hosts. Drastic measures I know but they constitute a relatively small number of oaks in our savanna and it's known they are weak trees on our shallow soils with short life expectancies, highly susceptable to five major virulent diseases, and structurally unfit for our rocky hillsides or even landscaped maintained yards.
Knowing the reported disease centers in the Dallas/Ft. Worth metroplex, I would hazard a certain evaluation that you have been victimzed by wilt. The symptoms as you describe indicate a failure of the tree. No amount of foliar, injection, or ground treatment can deliver a therapeutic treatment no matter the deficiency, the leaves are disfunctional at this point, based on your descriptions of margin scortching. If wilt may not be the causitive pathogen, bacterial scortch is the only other diagnosis I could reasonably assume, if so, you'll again need to sacrifice the tree in hopes of helping the others live.