Took time to read it all.
My BIL has seemly no interrest in Kevin. I preach to Kevin, He is your Dad respect him for that. My own dealings with my BIL have not been good, so I'll just leave it at that. I did not do that much, he wanted to learn stuff, he wanted money, I just pointed out to him there were a lot of odd jobs that people paid to have done. Just DO IT RIGHT, BE HONEST. He has made some mistakes, and been taken a few times. He is impressed by Matt and Josh, My boys and what they have. The sad part is my BIL could give a crap less where he is. Most of the time he is working, or eating me out of house and home, but that is OK by me. When he started wearing his jeans like a man, and lost the long hair, I started to respect him. He has tractor and truck fever bad. I think we have a winner here. I am still drilling school and grades into him. Hope this takes also. As for the military, that is where I got most of my Education. The opportunity is there, if you will take advantage of it. I think maybe I answered all the questions. Kevin has read this thread about 10times, and said to thank all of you for the encouragement.
Bob