I have a anti-backdraft damper in the ducts for each furnace....i strongly recommend them! The 8'' round ones can be bought the other one is custom made, by a company (cant remember name) but i went through crappie keith from yukon furnaces, just gave him the measurments and sent a check, arrived at my door in a week or 2. excellent quality!....but a good hvac guy should be able to get one made for you. Both the dampers i have open by force of air and close automatically.
I dont know about your furnace but...the hvac guy that replaced one of those heat sensors told me the reason it went out is because they are not meant to be tripped on a regular basis, they can only be tripped so many times and then they fail. That is why you need a quality damper to block the air flow!
As for your flue temps.....those magnetic temp gauges are JUNK! They are NOT accurate!