trailmaker
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Your dad needs to do a lot of research into "Russian Fireplaces". They have been around for over a hundred years and it is what the rocket stoves are, just renamed.
Going the route of using water would make it very much more complicated. All that would be needed is several tons of mass in the form of rocks, brick and cement. Putting water in the mix is going to make it ten times more complicated.
I believe "Russian Fireplaces" is another name for "Finnish Fireplaces" and "Masonry Heaters". They were developed hundreds of years ago when wood became scarce in Europe. They have enclosed fireboxes which probably makes them safer than rocket stoves. The high temp combustion pathways are stone or brick and will last much longer than steel pipe and drums. I think people get excited about Rocket Stoves because they are billed as a cheap and fun DIY project. Masonry heaters can be purchased as a kit but they are expensive and require some masonry skills. They are also too heavy to be easily retrofitted into a structure.