Sorry to have been MIA for so long, things have been a bit crazy with work and such. I had a 40 plate heat exchanger installed along with the fixes to the plumbing, I felt it was the best option at the time. Things do seem better, however I am still using some propane. It seems like the new hx works really well, my OWB temps sometimes drop down to 150-149 degrees from the 180 degree set point, I believe this shows a large heat draw from the house. I appreciate all the help, and would like to hear any comments or suggestions on why I am still using some propane. I'm going to be in contact with my boiler guy to ask the same this week.
I'm no expert, but this has happened to me a few times too - so I might be able to steer you in the right direction.
What is your low set point on the boiler? If your water is getting down to 150, all you need to do is raise your low-end set point. I have mine to come on at 170 and off at 180. Mine is also set up like yours where the oil furnace will come on as a redundancy at 140, so all I have to do is keep my water temp above that and I never burn any oil. Perhaps the other thing you can do is lower the temp at your propane furnace so that it doesn't come on when the water temp is that warm.
If this doesn't help or if you can't understand my rambling, RE is expecting your call.