grapplermi
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I know you said no foreign stuff, but for family SUVs it doesn't get better than a Honda Pilot. When we had our 3rd child (2004), we decided that we needed the third row. I drove absolutely everything, so I could make a sound choice. I've never been happier. The 3.5 has 270 HP, yet still gets at least 5-10 mpg more than the trucks you're talking about. Absolutely solid handling, independent AWD, can't say enough good about it. Great on the highway, very sound in light off-road stuff, pulls a decent trailer very well. Just have a look, that's all I'm saying.
good luck, Matt
good luck, Matt