...If someone needs money to feed the family then they would take care and return whatever they borrowed in the same if not better condition than it was handed to them, knowing that their borrowing it again kind of depended on this...
not necessarily. those two conditions are not mutually inclusive. we'd all like to think they were though.
however, there are those out there, and we all know some, who are needing to feed their family so desparately because they've already burned all their other bridges.
don't get me wrong. i'm all about helping others....to a point. that point generally is pretty self explanatory. such as the current issue posed by the op.
just sayin.