Marc
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Sounds like you got it resolved... but... I don't know; my friendships are a lot different than yours.
If I get help from one of my friends that has more expertise and experience doing something... we wouldn't trade anything. He'd come help me... key word help. We'd do it together, and I'd try to learn. If it was such skilled work of the nature I couldn't help, I'd still be there to chat, bring food, drink... hand off tools, carry materials, whatever. My friendships are about doing things together, and I guess the people I'm friends with would never see it as trading favors, but we also go out of our ways to help each other no matter what. If a circle of friends don't all share that mentality first and foremost, it wouldn't be one I'd be a part of.
If I get help from one of my friends that has more expertise and experience doing something... we wouldn't trade anything. He'd come help me... key word help. We'd do it together, and I'd try to learn. If it was such skilled work of the nature I couldn't help, I'd still be there to chat, bring food, drink... hand off tools, carry materials, whatever. My friendships are about doing things together, and I guess the people I'm friends with would never see it as trading favors, but we also go out of our ways to help each other no matter what. If a circle of friends don't all share that mentality first and foremost, it wouldn't be one I'd be a part of.