Ok, [and I'm saying this with a friendly smile] go to the bathroom mirror, look into it, and complete the following sentence to yourself:
I am wood-cutting buddies with this guy because....
Some yr. ago now, I had three different guys I did stuff like this with. Each one of them would ALWAYS cause me hassles like you describe, not exactly the same but always always something. This went on for about ten yr. After I finally came to, got some sense, and got them out of my life, [and they weren't bad guys, just always a pain], it was hard for me to believe I put up with it for so long.
I am wood-cutting buddies with this guy because....
Some yr. ago now, I had three different guys I did stuff like this with. Each one of them would ALWAYS cause me hassles like you describe, not exactly the same but always always something. This went on for about ten yr. After I finally came to, got some sense, and got them out of my life, [and they weren't bad guys, just always a pain], it was hard for me to believe I put up with it for so long.